Episode #109 - How To Pull Yourself Out of the Pit of Self-Pity

WELCOME TO EPISODE #109 OF THE ENRICH YOUR SOUL PODCAST

If you’ve never been in the pit of self-pity, I congratulate you, I am jealous of you and I would love for you to buy me a lottery ticket because you are the luckiest person I know. Self-pity is a slow creep takeover that can absolutely ruin your mood, your productivity and your health.

Over the last month and change, I have been battling this awful phenomenon.

It started with fear with the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic and suddenly became this slide into a bottomless pit of self-pity. Sadness, unhappiness, lack of energy and insomnia took over my vibrant soul and turned the lights out. I felt un-motivated and this old nemesis of self-doubt became a daily battle that I would fight.

On certain days, I’d get my shots in and feel like I was making progress, only to be knocked down again, harder than before. Then, one morning, something changed. I realized what I was doing to myself and I decided I had had enough.

What did I change? In this episode I will share the 6 behavioral changes that I implemented that got me out of the endless slide of self-pity and back on solid, bright ground.

  1. Face Your Feelings

  2. Understand Your Self-Pity Triggers

  3. Be Wary of “Blanket” Negative Statements

  4. Go Toe-to-Toe With Your Negative Self

  5. Keep a Pity Time Journal

  6. Practice Gratitude

Do you have a topic you'd like me to discuss? Do you want to share your story? Do you know someone who has a fantastic story to share?

You can contact me by email at rich@richbracken.com or on Twitter and Instagram @richbracken1. 



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